The road to HEALING is not through REMINISCING, It is not through forgetting or suppressing feelings of grief and loneliness. Rather, It is through CRYING and Drowning in Melancholy that we somehow, open our eyes to the reality that the people we love is GONE and is lost forever.. in our SIGHT… It is through acceptance that we somehow convince ourselves to LIVE AGAIN and eventually MOVE ON.
This people we lost are too dear for us to replace but we have to remember that they DIED… we… DID NOT. We have to continue living, not for ourselves alone but for the people that we have left… people that we love too and are so much ALIVE and HOLDING on to us for STRENGHT.
CRY and DWELL on your PAIN… SHOW the people around you how weak you are and never pretend that you are strong. Cry on somebody else’s shoulder and do not lock yourself when you are feeling down… Because the more you HIDE your emotions, the deeper it CUTS you inside. HOLD on to the people that surrounds you… Hold to what you have left for courage because the more you reach out the more you will realize that you are NEVER ALONE.
Do not stop yourself from LOVING again and even limit it by COMPARING. People have distinct personalities and what makes us different and unique makes us SPECIAL… And that’s how life is… WE LOVE, WE GET HURT. WHEN WE GET HURT, WE FALL DOWN AND FROM THERE LEARN OUR LESSONS AND IN TIME START ALL OVER AGAIN…
I care for you same as all the people that surrounds you. We feel your pain and we wish to dwell with you on it. But this is your battle. No matter how we want to help, we can’t. So be strong… and if by chance you need a friend or a shoulder to cry on, count someone in… and always remember, “DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL, LOVE LEAVES LIVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL”.
MARLON will never be forgotten. He will always be with you no matter what… BUT should try to SLOWLY set aside what you are holding on from the past… and start MOVING ON to what lies ahead… Because this time, it’s not all about YOU anymore… but it’s about the most PRECIOUS GIFT he have left you and you are lucky to have…and it is MARLAN…
